I Noticed Their Discussion With Another Lady. Was it Wrong to Snoop?

Reader matter:

Im a teen and my sweetheart and that I was indeed on for almost half annually. We inadvertently started their Facebook membership he kept open on my computer and that I watched their conversation with a woman — an acquaintance of mine.

I read that he attempted to court you on top of that. I tried to not care about it until the big date that We mentioned “yes” to him, but he however keeps asking this lady for photographs and states the guy misses the girl and desires meet the woman sometime.

I understand its my mistake for snooping, but I dare you never to end hook up with married women being wondering when you find out that you’re date does these things without you knowing.

-Audrey H. (New York)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s response:

Online flirting and courting is still cheating. You date is cheating on you. I’d confront him about this and place right up relationship rules your comfortable with.

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